One of the most frequent questions we get asked is, "How can I say 'I love you' to my partner?" To answer this questions we've come up with a list of different ideas you can use to say those three special words!

• Share all aspects of your life.
• Write love comments on the morning newspaper.
• Be "in the mood."
• Spray your love letters with perfume.
• Imagine you are the only two people in the world.
• Sneak an afternoon nap together.
• Slip your own message inside your love's fortune cookie.
• Look for the good in your love.
• Do his laundry.
• Send flowers to her office.
• Leave a love note hidden under the pillow.
• Wash her car.
• Browse through old photos of the two of you.
• Make a practice of long kisses.
• Cultivate trust by always being honest.
• Help her on and off with her coat.
• Give books of romantic poetry.
• Stage your own kissing marathon.
• Enjoy a picnic among fountains in an urban plaza setting.
• Buy your mate a gold coin from the year you met.
• Surprise your mate with twenty-six gifts from A to Z that begin with each of the letters of the alphabet.
• Remind all your mate's friends to send them a card on their birthday.
• Be attentive to your mate's needs.
• Pick up his shirts at the cleaners.
• Always treat your mate as your lover.
• Flirt with each other constantly.
• Be the first to jump out of bed to make coffee in the morning.
• Be adventurous with a home cooked ethnic meal from your mate's background.
• Show your mate you care about their background and learn all you can about their ethnic history.
• Send a small evergreen tree with a note stating your pining for them.
• Give him a medal for being the very best.
• Blow kisses.
• Hold hands in public.
• Workout together.
• Eat junk food by candlelight.
• Write "I Love You" on the top of the butter with a toothpick.
• Write "I Love You" in red lipstick across the bathroom mirror.
• Place a rose inside her morning paper.
• Invite your mate over for breakfast.
• Offer to share the driving on long road trips.
• Learn to give a great back massage.
• Be playful with each other.
• Finger paint a romantic masterpiece together.
• Give a four leaf-clover on the eve of a big event for good luck.
• Place red Christmas lights on plants for February 14th.
• Take a moonlit walk on Sunday to start off the week right.
• Treat her to a shopping spree at a lingerie shop.
• Treat him and his buddies to an afternoon at a sports bar for the big game.
• Help him pick out his ties.
• Snuggle often.
• Listen with your heart as well as your head.
• Smile at each other often.
• Rent her favorite movie.
• Shampoo, blow dry and brush her hair.
• Do his laundry and iron his clothes.
• Write love letters at least monthly.
• Serve breakfast in bed.
• Have a special knock that only the two of you know.
• Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is better."
• Hire a maid for your not-so-tidy mate.
• Carve your initials on a fence.
• Ask questions about your mate's day.
• Send a valentine in January to get the year rolling.

We should give as we would receive, cheerfully, quickly, and without hesitation, for there is no grace in a benefit that sticks to the fingers. ~Seneca